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Despite what you might think, the best dating advice in the world is actually pretty simple. There are simple mental changes that any man can make, which will result in more and more women becoming sexually attracted to him.

Have you ever noticed how some guys seem to get all the women? Even if they are unattractive, and you can’t really figure out what they have going for them? The reason some men are able to get the hottest women is because they have the proper mindset.

So what exactly does this mean, and how can you develop a similar mindset?

It means that you need to build a sort of quiet confidence, that let’s everybody know that nothing can shake you. I know that sounds a bit weird, but if you think about some of the most confident guys in movies are you’ll see that they all have this in common.

For instance, do you think anyone would question it if Bruce Wayne, James Bond, Tony Stark or even Rambo walked in to a bar and ordered a really girly drink?

Not a chance! The people around them wouldn’t ask, “Why is Bruce Wayne drinking that pink cocktail?” Instead they’d think to themselves “Hmmm, if Bruce Wayne enjoys pink cocktails, they must be pretty good”.

The reason for this is because Bruce Wayne is so confident in every part of his persona that people everywhere are in awe of his “coolness”. And thus, he can single handedly make pink cocktails seem a lot cooler then they really are.

When you sit there at the coffee shop people watching, and constantly question everything and everyone around you, you are instantly lowering the quiet confidence that people perceive in you.

Asking yourself questions like “How did that guy get that hot girl” and “Man, if only I was better at guitar, then girls would be all over me” are hindering your inner ‘Bruce Wayne’.

Instead, if you sat there, sipping on your coffee with the mind set that there is nothing cooler in the world then sitting right here in this very chair, drinking this cup of coffee; then other people will start to see the confidence in you.

When you can take that exact mindset and apply it to as many aspects of your life as possible, it will carry over to everything you do.

This holds especially true when it comes to meeting and sleeping with more women. We don’t want a guy who second-guesses everything; it seems weak and pretty wimpy. We want a man who will stand up, take us by the hand and let us know “This is how it’s going to go down” and then can lead us to the bedroom.

When you can make a woman feel safe, protected and excited anytime she’s around you, then she will be all yours any time you want. And when you are meeting a new woman for the first time, you shouldn’t feel scared to let us know that you are attracted to them. Too many men try to act too friendly for too long, and end up telling us “I’m sexually attracted to you, but I’m too scared to do anything about it.”

More than anything else, women want men who are strong, confident, and direct with their feelings of attraction and can keep us on our toes.

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How do you know if you’ve ever been in love? Most people would argue that although being in love with someone is non-tangible, there is absolutely no doubt in their mind of it existing. In fact, if you are questioning whether or not you are in love, then you are most certainly not.

While I do not doubt for a second the existence of being in love (albeit being one of those sad individuals yet to experience it), I am somewhat perplexed over our perception of what constitutes humanities most sought after experience.

For me, falling in love with someone is a decision made based on the successful matching of ones own predetermined criteria or preferences.

I fondly refer to the preliminary stage of partner selection as the ‘terminator glasses’ phase, since it filters through a potential mate’s attributes and matches them off against our own unique preferences.

On the New Years Eve just passed I went to meet friends at a bar where we would be celebrating the evening. There, waiting at the door with my friend, I saw HIM for the first time. I did a quick terminator scan:
Height:  Around 6 foot. MATCH.
Build: Not too skinny, not too fat, not too buff. MATCH.
Hair: Short dark brown. Not over the top alla David Beckham. MATCH.
Complexion: Dark olive. MATCH.
Lips: Plump. MATCH.
Smile: Oh my God. MATCH.
Eyes: Big, brown, expressive, with long thick lashes. MATCH!
Stance: Gentle, not cocky. MATCH.
Nationality: Clearly foreign, probably Brazilian. MATCH.

With the terminator glasses still firmly planted on my face, the confirmed Brazilian was permitted to move onto the second part of phase one: interaction. This is often the most fatal part of any potential relationship, since every sentence uttered, every look given, and every movement is put through the filter of the terminator glasses. Any miss-match could lead to premature relationship death. Very little is forgiven during this part, especially if one’s program is set at ‘long term mate’. In saying this, it is also my favorite part of the process as it is the most fun. I see it as a game we both know we’re playing, but refuse to acknowledge as existing. One can withdraw from the game at anytime without repercussion (that is, of course, when both parties are working under the same set of rules. If this is not the case a few unwanted phone numbers are collected, followed by a few awkward conversations. And depending on how weak one is - unwanted dates followed by unwanted kisses, possibly ending in unwanted sex!).

Stage two, ‘the rose coloured glasses’ phase, is extremely dangerous and not usually approached with caution by either candidate. Depending on the impact of stage one, bombs warning ‘relationship doom’ could be dropped right in front of ones eyes, yet getting let go un-noticed. Everything appears and is, invariably, utterly workable. Despite my cynicism, this stage is defiantly more exciting than the terminator phase, albeit being laced with the fear of it all ending. The premature ‘I love you’ could escape ones mouth, falling like a ball onto a roulette table. The stakes are high, but it could also very well pay off and pass you onto stage three. Or not…

Declaring the title of stage three is difficult. And the truth is, I don’t know what to call it because I’m usually making my way to the green exit sign above the fire escape before you can say ‘marry me’.

My experience with stage three is that I usually realize Mr Perfect is human. I resist accepting him just the way he is, and try to point out where he is lacking (he is usually not so open to my constructive criticism. I wonder why?). This of course does not lead him to change his ways, but firmly ground himself in them (and resent me in the process). Love and commitment gets swapped with fear and dependence. Some stay to battle it out to the very end, most head straight for the green exit light.

People claim at this point that they have ‘fallen out of love’. My argument is that they were never in love in the first place. One of my favourite movies, ‘Moulin Rouge’, melodically states, “The greatest thing you will ever learn, is just to love, and be loved in return”.  I believe this is what we think being in love is all about.  Yet being loved in return implies that there is a condition to your giving love.  So romantic love is conditional love. If romantic love only goes one-way, it is termed unrequited love or even ‘desperate’.

What if I said that true love can only be unconditional?  And inside of that, true love can only mean 100% acceptance of the subject, just the way they are and just the way they’re not. What if love, real love, is just loving?

Ché Palk

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Kissing is something that one could talk about over and over again and never get bored. Nothing is better than a good kiss. Nothing makes the birds seem to sing louder, the grass seem greener than a great kiss.  You’ve seen articles about kissing, but not really too much about methods.  You aren’t born a good kisser.
The only thing that will help you is education and practice.  I’m sure glad there are things like kissing to practice in life, life would have been boring if all it was, was geometry.  Let’s talk about different ways that you can kiss.  Take some notes and practice on your woman. She will love the new attention.

First there is the domination.  We all have seen those WWII clips of them men coming back from battle and kissing their wives.  This is a kiss with some power behind it. It can say many things.  A kiss like this will knock her off of her feet!  Maybe you might use this kiss if you haven’t seen her for awhile.
You might use this kiss if you are very horny and can’t contain yourself any more. We all have had those strong moments where we feel like we have to kiss someone. We need an outlet for all the sexual frustration that we are feeling. The great thing about a kiss is, it is easy and fast to do. You can get your sexual frustration out without having to take off your clothes.
The element of surprise is what makes a woman the wettest.  This isn’t a kissing technique per se, but you will get the drift.  While you are kissing her, roam her body with your hands. Explore every area that you can. This will make her go crazy before you can even begin to think about what your next move is.  I can’t tell you enough how important this is. Before you give your woman a kiss, make sure your breath smells okay.  Don’t go kissing her if you just ate a tuna on rye sandwich.  If you are in doubt, go brush your teeth. You don’t like it when she has stuff stuck in her teeth that fall into your mouth.
Let’s talk more about kissing and not the do’s and don’ts. The ‘explore’ kiss. This is where you spend some time getting to know her mouth. This is a fun one from time to time. It shows that you are interested in her. You are learning new ways to excite her. This can be good for both of you. Good for you because you will learn new things that turn her on. Great for her because she will think all this time you are spending on her is great!
The peck before bed. You know you aren’t getting laid when you get that little peck before she rolls over in her flannel night gown. It doesn’t have to be such a little innocent kiss. Instead, look into her eyes when she gives you that little peck. Run your fingers through her hair and tell her that you love her.  This will give her sweet dreams all night long.
Just like the peck before bed, turn that peck before you leave for work into something special.  Tell her that you will be thinking about her all day long while at work. Look her in the eyes and smile when you say it.  This will keep her waiting for when you get home.
You can also use kisses to see where she is at sexually.  If you are turned on but you are not sure if she is, kiss her and find out. Give her a long slow kiss, if she comes back wanting more, than you know you are going to score in the sack. If on the other hand, after you are done she is talking about he bills you owe that month, you aren’t getting laid tonight.
You may not know it, but a kiss holds a lot of power to a woman. With the right kiss you can make her go from undecided to a horny vixen when it comes to sex. If you aren’t sure that you will get laid, a kiss is a good way to test the waters.  A kiss can also be a way to show affection. If you just want to show that you love her and are thinking about her, a great way to show it is a little peck. This will make her feel warm and fuzzy inside and know that you care.
Kissing shows interest. It maybe sexual or just love, but it does it all the same. Your woman will respond to this the same way time and time again. She will be happy to feel your lips on hers. Don’t forget, you can never get too many kisses in your lifetime.


Ché Palk

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