Despite what you might think, the best dating advice in the world is actually pretty simple. There are simple mental changes that any man can make, which will result in more and more women becoming sexually attracted to him.
Have you ever noticed how some guys seem to get all the women? Even if they are unattractive, and you can’t really figure out what they have going for them? The reason some men are able to get the hottest women is because they have the proper mindset.
So what exactly does this mean, and how can you develop a similar mindset?
It means that you need to build a sort of quiet confidence, that let’s everybody know that nothing can shake you. I know that sounds a bit weird, but if you think about some of the most confident guys in movies are you’ll see that they all have this in common.
For instance, do you think anyone would question it if Bruce Wayne, James Bond, Tony Stark or even Rambo walked in to a bar and ordered a really girly drink?
Not a chance! The people around them wouldn’t ask, “Why is Bruce Wayne drinking that pink cocktail?” Instead they’d think to themselves “Hmmm, if Bruce Wayne enjoys pink cocktails, they must be pretty good”.
The reason for this is because Bruce Wayne is so confident in every part of his persona that people everywhere are in awe of his “coolness”. And thus, he can single handedly make pink cocktails seem a lot cooler then they really are.
When you sit there at the coffee shop people watching, and constantly question everything and everyone around you, you are instantly lowering the quiet confidence that people perceive in you.
Asking yourself questions like “How did that guy get that hot girl” and “Man, if only I was better at guitar, then girls would be all over me” are hindering your inner ‘Bruce Wayne’.
Instead, if you sat there, sipping on your coffee with the mind set that there is nothing cooler in the world then sitting right here in this very chair, drinking this cup of coffee; then other people will start to see the confidence in you.
When you can take that exact mindset and apply it to as many aspects of your life as possible, it will carry over to everything you do.
This holds especially true when it comes to meeting and sleeping with more women. We don’t want a guy who second-guesses everything; it seems weak and pretty wimpy. We want a man who will stand up, take us by the hand and let us know “This is how it’s going to go down” and then can lead us to the bedroom.
When you can make a woman feel safe, protected and excited anytime she’s around you, then she will be all yours any time you want. And when you are meeting a new woman for the first time, you shouldn’t feel scared to let us know that you are attracted to them. Too many men try to act too friendly for too long, and end up telling us “I’m sexually attracted to you, but I’m too scared to do anything about it.”
More than anything else, women want men who are strong, confident, and direct with their feelings of attraction and can keep us on our toes.
When you can show us that, then you can have pretty much any woman you want. If you want a killer head start towards building rock solid confidence and serious skills with women, you should check out http://chepalk.tpbdotnet.hop.clickbank.net
How do you know if you’ve ever been in love? Most people would argue that although being in love with someone is non-tangible, there is absolutely no doubt in their mind of it existing. In fact, if you are questioning whether or not you are in love, then you are most certainly not.
While I do not doubt for a second the existence of being in love (albeit being one of those sad individuals yet to experience it), I am somewhat perplexed over our perception of what constitutes humanities most sought after experience.
For me, falling in love with someone is a decision made based on the successful matching of ones own predetermined criteria or preferences.
I fondly refer to the preliminary stage of partner selection as the ‘terminator glasses’ phase, since it filters through a potential mate’s attributes and matches them off against our own unique preferences.
On the New Years Eve just passed I went to meet friends at a bar where we would be celebrating the evening. There, waiting at the door with my friend, I saw HIM for the first time. I did a quick terminator scan:
Height: Around 6 foot. MATCH.
Build: Not too skinny, not too fat, not too buff. MATCH.
Hair: Short dark brown. Not over the top alla David Beckham. MATCH.
Complexion: Dark olive. MATCH.
Lips: Plump. MATCH.
Smile: Oh my God. MATCH.
Eyes: Big, brown, expressive, with long thick lashes. MATCH!
Stance: Gentle, not cocky. MATCH.
Nationality: Clearly foreign, probably Brazilian. MATCH.
With the terminator glasses still firmly planted on my face, the confirmed Brazilian was permitted to move onto the second part of phase one: interaction. This is often the most fatal part of any potential relationship, since every sentence uttered, every look given, and every movement is put through the filter of the terminator glasses. Any miss-match could lead to premature relationship death. Very little is forgiven during this part, especially if one’s program is set at ‘long term mate’. In saying this, it is also my favorite part of the process as it is the most fun. I see it as a game we both know we’re playing, but refuse to acknowledge as existing. One can withdraw from the game at anytime without repercussion (that is, of course, when both parties are working under the same set of rules. If this is not the case a few unwanted phone numbers are collected, followed by a few awkward conversations. And depending on how weak one is - unwanted dates followed by unwanted kisses, possibly ending in unwanted sex!).
Stage two, ‘the rose coloured glasses’ phase, is extremely dangerous and not usually approached with caution by either candidate. Depending on the impact of stage one, bombs warning ‘relationship doom’ could be dropped right in front of ones eyes, yet getting let go un-noticed. Everything appears and is, invariably, utterly workable. Despite my cynicism, this stage is defiantly more exciting than the terminator phase, albeit being laced with the fear of it all ending. The premature ‘I love you’ could escape ones mouth, falling like a ball onto a roulette table. The stakes are high, but it could also very well pay off and pass you onto stage three. Or not…
Declaring the title of stage three is difficult. And the truth is, I don’t know what to call it because I’m usually making my way to the green exit sign above the fire escape before you can say ‘marry me’.
My experience with stage three is that I usually realize Mr Perfect is human. I resist accepting him just the way he is, and try to point out where he is lacking (he is usually not so open to my constructive criticism. I wonder why?). This of course does not lead him to change his ways, but firmly ground himself in them (and resent me in the process). Love and commitment gets swapped with fear and dependence. Some stay to battle it out to the very end, most head straight for the green exit light.
People claim at this point that they have ‘fallen out of love’. My argument is that they were never in love in the first place. One of my favourite movies, ‘Moulin Rouge’, melodically states, “The greatest thing you will ever learn, is just to love, and be loved in return”. I believe this is what we think being in love is all about. Yet being loved in return implies that there is a condition to your giving love. So romantic love is conditional love. If romantic love only goes one-way, it is termed unrequited love or even ‘desperate’.
What if I said that true love can only be unconditional? And inside of that, true love can only mean 100% acceptance of the subject, just the way they are and just the way they’re not. What if love, real love, is just loving?
- U if for Unrequited Love (lisavoisin.wordpress.com)
- Romantic Love - Not Just for Borderlines (authorjaenwirefly.wordpress.com)
- Cupid’slove and Ferocious Death (socyberty.com)
- The mystery of Love is revealed! (1000petals.wordpress.com)
- Prog’s Only Stupid Dream: Porcupine Tree - “Stupid Dream/Pure Narcotic” (Sound Affects) (popmatters.com)
- The pitfalls of Romantic Love (inyourbones.com)
- Colin Farrell Reveals His “First Romantic Love” as He Honors Michelle Williams (5min.com)
- Brain Chemistry 101 (bluefingersbrassknuckles.wordpress.com)
- I Respect My Husband, But I Don’t Love Him (psychologytoday.com)
- Awesome # 106: Weddings (jodieawesome.wordpress.com)
Kissing is something that one could talk about over and over again and never get bored. Nothing is better than a good kiss. Nothing makes the birds seem to sing louder, the grass seem greener than a great kiss. You’ve seen articles about kissing, but not really too much about methods. You aren’t born a good kisser.
The only thing that will help you is education and practice. I’m sure glad there are things like kissing to practice in life, life would have been boring if all it was, was geometry. Let’s talk about different ways that you can kiss. Take some notes and practice on your woman. She will love the new attention.
First there is the domination. We all have seen those WWII clips of them men coming back from battle and kissing their wives. This is a kiss with some power behind it. It can say many things. A kiss like this will knock her off of her feet! Maybe you might use this kiss if you haven’t seen her for awhile.
You might use this kiss if you are very horny and can’t contain yourself any more. We all have had those strong moments where we feel like we have to kiss someone. We need an outlet for all the sexual frustration that we are feeling. The great thing about a kiss is, it is easy and fast to do. You can get your sexual frustration out without having to take off your clothes.
The element of surprise is what makes a woman the wettest. This isn’t a kissing technique per se, but you will get the drift. While you are kissing her, roam her body with your hands. Explore every area that you can. This will make her go crazy before you can even begin to think about what your next move is. I can’t tell you enough how important this is. Before you give your woman a kiss, make sure your breath smells okay. Don’t go kissing her if you just ate a tuna on rye sandwich. If you are in doubt, go brush your teeth. You don’t like it when she has stuff stuck in her teeth that fall into your mouth.
Let’s talk more about kissing and not the do’s and don’ts. The ‘explore’ kiss. This is where you spend some time getting to know her mouth. This is a fun one from time to time. It shows that you are interested in her. You are learning new ways to excite her. This can be good for both of you. Good for you because you will learn new things that turn her on. Great for her because she will think all this time you are spending on her is great!
The peck before bed. You know you aren’t getting laid when you get that little peck before she rolls over in her flannel night gown. It doesn’t have to be such a little innocent kiss. Instead, look into her eyes when she gives you that little peck. Run your fingers through her hair and tell her that you love her. This will give her sweet dreams all night long.
Just like the peck before bed, turn that peck before you leave for work into something special. Tell her that you will be thinking about her all day long while at work. Look her in the eyes and smile when you say it. This will keep her waiting for when you get home.
You can also use kisses to see where she is at sexually. If you are turned on but you are not sure if she is, kiss her and find out. Give her a long slow kiss, if she comes back wanting more, than you know you are going to score in the sack. If on the other hand, after you are done she is talking about he bills you owe that month, you aren’t getting laid tonight.
You may not know it, but a kiss holds a lot of power to a woman. With the right kiss you can make her go from undecided to a horny vixen when it comes to sex. If you aren’t sure that you will get laid, a kiss is a good way to test the waters. A kiss can also be a way to show affection. If you just want to show that you love her and are thinking about her, a great way to show it is a little peck. This will make her feel warm and fuzzy inside and know that you care.
Kissing shows interest. It maybe sexual or just love, but it does it all the same. Your woman will respond to this the same way time and time again. She will be happy to feel your lips on hers. Don’t forget, you can never get too many kisses in your lifetime.
- The Kissing Dilemma: Does It Have To Make Or Break A Relationship? (justblaume.com)
- I Miss the Kiss (kisstheboysandmakethemcry.wordpress.com)
- I should have kissed more slowly, more often… (jjsnight.wordpress.com)
- Robert Pattinson is a “Good Kisser” Proclaims Christina Ricci (celebs.gather.com)
- Day K - Kiss and Tell (chroniclesofanindependentspinster.wordpress.com)
- Reasons Why You Should Probably Kiss Your Future Husband (collegecandy.com)
- The Ten Second Kiss (ivebeenthereclaire.com)
- Is Chris Colfer A Good Kisser? Let’s Ask! (perezhilton.com)
- How to Kiss Persuasively (psychologytoday.com)
- Toe-Curling First Kiss (musetracks.wordpress.com)
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Has your relationship run out of steam? Do you wish to go back to the loving and excitement of your early times together?
Well you can! The idea is to be different in a romantic way.
1) Unless your woman is very unusual, flowers make all the difference. Not just any flowers, red roses symbolise passion and romance. Bring a lovely bunch of roses and toss flower heads into a fragrantly scented bath for a romantic bath time.
2) Share a shower and cover each other in slippery soap, use the opportunity to caress her body and admire it. Then rub your slippery body against hers to drive her wild.
3) Make time for a weekend break in the romantic cities of Amsterdam, New York or Paris. If the budget is tight, Brighton or other seaside resorts can be just as much fun.
4) Start really listening to your partner. Woman usually love to talk and if you listen carfully you will learn a lot about her needs and desires. As a bonus she will love you for listening.
5) Try to be happier in a spontaneous way. Many men have difficulty being spontaneous, but if you can prove to your partner that being in her company makes you happy she will respond and feel happier herself. Don’t make it elaborate. For instance while out for a walk, just suddenly grab her hand and start skipping or running.
6) Every woman likes to be complimented - not only on her appearance but also her manner or a particularly good meal she has made an effort to cook for you. Try anything you can think of that will boost her ego and give her confidence.
7) Show her you think about her pleasure - buy her a sex toy or some sexy lingerie, or if she likes role play, a sexy outfit.
These seven ideas will help you make a great start. Of course there are many other ways to revitalise a relationship.
- How To Be Romantic (relationshipabode.wordpress.com)
- Religious Sex-Toy Sites Vow to Save Marriages (thedailybeast.com)
- Finding God In A Vibrator (thefrisky.com)
- Define the Romantic Guy (romanceyourmate.wordpress.com)
- 10 Romantic Things To Do When Living Together (romanceyourmate.wordpress.com)
- Cute Couple Ryan and Julianne Have a Romantic Parisian Date Night (popsugar.com)
- The History of the Valentine (education.com)
- Top 10 Romantic Ideas (romanceyourmate.wordpress.com)
- 12 Essential Tips for Revitalising Your Blog in 2012 (problogger.net)
- Revitalising Public Services & Innovation: Key Questions (seanfburns.com)
- Somolekae wants rural economy revitalised (gabzfmnews.wordpress.com)
- Museum director hopes to revitalise Budapest’s visual art (travelnews.britishairways.com)
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According to the researchers, while writers and artists from Byron to Picasso have perpetuated the notion of the amorous artist, the new study may be the first to offer up some real proof.
“Creative people are often considered to be very attractive and get lots of attention as a result. They tend to be charismatic and produce art and poetry that grab people’s interest,” said the study author Dr Daniel Nettle, a lecturer in psychology at Newcastle University’s School of Biology.
The study of 425 British citizens included a sampling of visual artists and poets. The participants were asked about how much poetry and visual art they created, their psychiatric history, and their sexual encounters since age 18.
More sexual partners for creatives
In comparison to an average of 3 for non-creative people, the average number of sexual partners for poets and creative artists was between 4 and 10. The investigators reported in the November 29 issue of The Proceedings of the Royal Society that the more creative a person was, the higher the number of sexual adventures.
Nettle speculated that sexual exploration may be encouraged by the artistic personality.
“It could also be that very creative types lead a bohemian lifestyle and tend to act on more sexual impulses and opportunities, often purely for experience’s sake, than the average person would,” he said. “Moreover, it’s common to find that this sexual behaviour is tolerated in creative people. Partners, even long-term ones, are less likely to expect loyalty and fidelity from them.”
- When art breeds success in the bedroom (guardian.co.uk)
- Great Sexual Positions for Menopausal Women (everydayhealth.com)
- Is There a Price to Pay for Promiscuity? (everydayhealth.com)
- Role-Playing and More Sex Games (everydayhealth.com)
- For Older, Married Couples, Regular Sex Is Key To Happiness: Study (huffingtonpost.com)
- Students Propose Yale Sex Week (collegecandy.com)
Nowadays is very common that sexuality determines the direction where love and relationships are heading. By the time a couple join together they immediately want to fulfill desire.
When sexuality, loneliness, and other selfish feelings play a part in the start up of a relationship, it is very probable that the couple may last together only for a short time, and problems will occur. The problems will stem from habits, words, actions, etc.
These recent years the estimated divorce rate has reached numbers higher than ever. This has motivated the changing of a number of laws, with the focus of reducing divorces while making couples think. In Michigan, the couple must attend marriage counseling before marriage licenses are obtainable and must take STD tests. The Sexual Transmitted Disease test is a measure of protection for the couple, while the counseling session is to determine the purpose of marriage.
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Love is more than what many realize. Selfish motivations only break up relationships, since the purpose is to fulfill a want or burning desire. Thus, to obtain a long-lasting relationship elements of love need to fall into place and be in the mind of the couple joining in relationships.
Reviewing the different forms of love can help you to appreciate how it works. When a mother disciplines a child for running into the streets, the mother is dishing out tough love to protect the child from harm. When a father alerts the family that problems are causing harm to the arrangement of marriage, thus instigates an open conversation to resolve the problems. The father is illustrating tough love in an effort to make his commitment stand firm.
Problem solving willingness is rarely in relationships today. When troubles mount up couples often decide separation and/or divorce is the way out. Troubles stemming from financial burdens, adulterous relationships, lack of consideration for the other, and so forth often lead to “I cannot take this anymore,” and one or the other walks out the door. We can see that this type of relationship started out with desire in mind, since long-suffering is non-existing. If the couple started out on solid grounds, when the problems creep in, they would have come to a more productive agreement. Of course, when adultery is the problem we know the person committing the act is merely acting out on his/her desire, thus considering separation and/or divorce is logical.
Abusive relationships would never start in some instances if the mate took the time to investigate the partner’s background and take the time to become acquainted with the mate before permitted sexual intimacy.
Thus, setting standards from the onset of any relationship can help you prevent finding love and relationship that leads to the road of separation and/or divorce. When you set standards you are making a statement, thus never letting your standards go below your beliefs is part of the solution to creating a long-lasting relationship.
Today, sexuality plays a large part in love and relationship. Sexuality is part of the elements that makes the relationship work, however it is not the ultimate ingredient to make love last. Thus, giving sexuality its correct place can help you find true love as long as you never forget about all the other ingredients that together build a love that lasts.
- More Drama From The Pulpit: Bishop Eddie Long’s Wife Decides To File For Divorce AGAIN And Sticks To Her Decision… For Now (bossip.com)
- The Aftermath of Childhood Sexual Abuse (everydayhealth.com)
- Turmoil In Zion? Pastor Eddie Long’s Wife seeks Divorce (prhayz.wordpress.com)
- Psychotherapy to Treat Erectile Dysfunction (everydayhealth.com)
- Broaching the awkward/weird topic of marriage and divorce (ask.metafilter.com)
- Reconnecting Couples Using Physical Intimacy (psychologytoday.com)
- Help for Orgasm Difficulties (everydayhealth.com)
- Are Sexless Marriages and Relationships Normal? (everydayhealth.com)
There are different forms of entertainment people enjoy. Some gets satisfaction
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from reading books, some enjoy the boring world of cross-stitching, a lot would go for a shopping extravaganza and some just love to have movie marathons. One can choose from an action, drama, comedy, suspense and even titillating films; anything for a bored person. Have you ever wondered why a lot of people are into porn movies regardless of age and gender?
Every one of us has a different level of curiosity, and has different reactions to it as well. Some may be too much willing to feed that curiosity and some would just leave it unanswered. Of all the forms of entertainment, why porn movies? Human do have some urges and drives that need to be gratified; completely satisfied. Admit it or not watching a comedy film or cross stitching or reading a history or Math book can not in any way gratify one’s sexual urge or feed one’s curiosity.
One can rely on porn magazines for satisfaction but it would be more fun to see the deeds in action. You may get feverish with those seductive and sensual photos you see on magazines but you can feel the real excitement when you see those babes exposing their asses, pressing those bountiful boobs with that tempting look right in front of your screen. Stop imagining, fantasize with one of the sexiest temptress, avail one or more of the latest adult dvds. Worrying about the price? Expensive porn dvds need not a problem. Despair not because there are a lot of cheap porn dvds out in the market; price should not hinder you from achieving the satisfaction you long have been wanting. You can buy porn dvds or you too can have a porn dvd download if you wish.
In a modern society where morality is still a big issue, these kids of sex or porn materials is a BIG BIG NO-NO. But why should the society stop someone from pursuing his happiness? (Needless to say, it is against one’s right in pursuing what he wanted). No one will stop you from reading your favorite book. You would not be prohibited to finish your very complex-patterned cross stitch and you would not get reprimand or stop you from watching a film you are dying to see so why then would they stop you from watching porn films? Having xxx porn dvds at home would not really hurt the society, some would even say it is a way of helping the exciting world of porn movies become more exciting, chuckle! What are you waiting for, get entertained by sexy and irresistible sex goddesses you’ll ever meet on earth! Prepare yourself especially your hearts and eyes for the most wonderful and unforgettable scenes you’ll ever see in your entire life. So sit back, relax and enjoy your movies (Read this: Pop corns or chips are not needed anyway). Alone or with someone, you will definitely enjoy each scene. You’ve got to take my word for that.
- Why the Porn Business Isn’t Misogynist (forbes.com)
- The Porn Folder Of All Porn Folders (gizmodo.com.au)
- There Is No Closet: Learning about Queer Sexuality from ‘Straight’ Porn (bilerico.com)
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that sex is a taboo. Each person has different sexual preferences and though there are those who are very vocal about their needs in bed, there still are others who opt to keep silent for fear of being called vulgar.
Researchers nowadays are saying that another sexual revolution is well underway, as evidenced by the high rating of shows that has sex-related content. In a recent study conducted by Jean Twenge of San Diego University, it was found out that 50% of teenage girls are already having sex, and are also considered the leaders of the teen sexual revolution in the new world. The issue of oral sex is now seen in a new light as more and more teenagers no longer see it as disgusting. The trend shows that sex has moved past the boundaries of relationships, marriage and pleasure towards the quest for pleasure.
With the knowledge of teenage sex, how many parents have bothered to educate their children about the pros (if any) and cons of early sexual activities? Studies show that parents would rather pretend that their children have no idea what sex is yet and talking about it would make them more curious, which could lead to experimentation.
But this is definitely not the case. Children can now access sites featuring couples having live sex, or a live sex show with hot models as stars. No, teenagers nowadays are no longer as innocent as we want them to be, and despite the many precautions parents take to prevent their children from sexy webcam chat rooms and club live sex, it just isn’t enough. Children still need to be educated by their parents. They need to know that they are not the only one experiencing things such as arousal or even masturbation. Children are confused and for them to be properly guided towards their societal roles, parents still has the biggest part of it.
I still believe that the biggest problem with the teenage lies on the fact that technically speaking, they still are children. Biologically, teenage girls are not yet equipped to bear healthy children. Aside from this, the spread of sexually transmitted diseases can easily affect teenagers as most of them refuses to follow the lesson taught in sexual education.
People blame teenage pregnancy to the proliferation of sex-related media and easy access to porn sites. It is true that several studies have found a relationship between early sexual experimentation and sexual innuendos in TVs and movies. But hey, you can’t blame everything to media. True, the media is cluttered with so much sex-related content but still, you are responsible for your kids. Cam to cam sex stars don’t tell your children to go out and have sex with the next girl they see. Leaving your children uneducated and clueless about this topic when everyone else is talking can only leave them to be more curious if not as closed up as you are, and the cycle continues.
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- What We Can Learn from the Dutch About Teen Sex (queerlandia.com)
- The chaste and the chased (lilithdiaries.wordpress.com)
- Should parents allow their teens to have sex in their homes? (boston.com)
- Anticlimax revisited (radicalhub.wordpress.com)
- What We Can Learn From the Dutch About Teen Sex (healthland.time.com)
- Girl lied about alley sex attack (bbc.co.uk)
- A Girl’s Lament: Sex, Love, and America’s Teens (frstephensmuts.wordpress.com)
- Conservative? The Tories are all in favour of the Sexual Revolution (politicsontoast.com)
- Public Sentiment About Sexting (socyberty.com)